@ihatebeing17 and like i am personally not cut out for that effort. but if someone did decide to be free of social media and actually thought abt how that would affect their relationships and adjusted accordingly i feel like that’s not inherently antisocial idk most ppl rnt doin that tho
@ihatebeing17 i do feel this bc ive spent years wanting to delete ig but not going thru with it bc i dont want to lose the social aspect… but also bc i acknowledge that if i did delete ig i’d have to put extra effort into making plans and staying active in my friends lives
i mostly dont experience gender dysphoria anymore but the fact that i will never be able to be the one twink at the bear party is deeply upsetting to me