"Hi,
My name is X, I am 30 years old and I am a banker. I am from Enugu, and I live in Lagos. I checked your bio and noticed that you also live in Lagos. I have noticed the way you interact on Àgbà's page, and I always look out for your comments.
Do you mind indulging me?"
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We live in an interesting time. Ordinarily, we are supposed to be celebrating grace because there is joy in heaven over one sinner that repent, than over 99 righteous people who have no need for repentance.
But the fact we see the church as a place where hoes come to retire and find husbands, and where men go to find easy sex, shows how far the church has fallen.
Knowing fully well that salvation offers redemption from sin and eternal life, but does not erase the past and its ripple effect, people are now intentional about avoiding Okafor and the trail of long held trauma. This tend to affect women more because for men, people would argue that rakes make the best husband. Chastity is preferred in women.
As Christians, where does on stand and how do you navigate this? People are saying they won't judge.....UNTIL you try becoming a member of their family. Legitimate position, but is that Christianly. Oh well🤷♂️
Perhaps, actions and consequences do override grace. One school of thought argues that if you do not punish bad behaviours, you amplify it and others will jump on it for lack of consequences. Another school supports this by saying that "at the time you were committing to this 'past' you knew exactly what you were doing, and knew it was wrong. Thus, you cannot then try to repaint it as inconsequential past, knowing fully well the effect stays with you."
It's a lot, but I'm just here to read responses and reactions.
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Men who forgive their cheating women, irritate their women.
Men who tolerate disrespect, irritate their women.
Men who are too available, irritate their women.
Men who make their women feel like they cannot cheat, irritate their women.
If you like, don't agree.
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As a married man,
If you're always the one initiating sex, you married the wrong wife.
Or you don't satisfy your wife sexually.
Your wife should be the one to mostly remind you, that it has been a while that you knacked.
And that she needs you.
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"If you elevate your woman, she will not follow other men."
"If you spoil your woman and treat a woman right, she will give you the world."
Who exactly is the bringer of goodluck in this relationship?
I should fund your life and career before you can love me. But na you dey bring good luck. E no go better for men that fall for cheap manipulation.
As a man, be okay with being left alone. If the women you want, don't want you because you're not rich, chest it and move on. It is life.
If you get rich, be ruthless with your choice. If it is a 20 year old babe you want, get it. If it is a totally submissive stay at home wife, get it. If you want a virgin, get it. Nobody has power to decide whom you should date when you have made it.
It is a ruthless world. Be ruthless.