Salvation
- not of you
- you can’t do enough
- not of works
- the obedience of Christ
Sanctification
- about you
- you can do enough for rewards / honorable vessels
- about your works
- the obedience of you
Don’t confuse the two.
i don’t think your parents should meet your partner till you know this is the person you actually want to settle down with & get married to. i’m so big on that. i can’t bring just ANYBODY to my parents.