A narcissist will watch you struggle through health issues, personal tragedy, grief, loss, or major life stressors and still find ways to make the situation about themselves.
The narcissists favorite abuse tactic is to set you up to be angry and then shame you for that anger.
It’s practically a form of entertainment for them.
People are truly sick. They’ll emotionally & physically abuse you, then flip the script & play victim. They know you were a blessing in their life, but they wanted control & to dim your light. While they’re telling everyone you’re crazy when they’re the ones who are actually sick
People love to do you wrong then try to turn it around and manipulate you into thinking tht it’s your fault tht they a fcked up human being like if you gone be anything be fckn FR !!! 🫰🏽😒💯
Your biggest hater isn’t loud, they’re watching quietly, learning your moves, copying your blueprint, then pretending they never studied you.
It’s not hate. It’s disguised imitation with ego that refuses to admit the source.
Malignant narcissist are scared of their victims.
They’re scared because they know if their victim speaks up, their false public image will be ruined.
So they preemptively and systematically smear campaign their victims to make sure nobody believes them if they ever do speak up.
Provoking me continuously to react so that they can feel superior and humble me. They are not good, just want to appear good. It's like putting on make-up for the show while rotting inside to the core.
Narcissistic revenge is designed to humiliate publicly. The humiliation is the goal. Not your actual suffering. If they can make you look bad in front of others, they have restored their sense of superiority.
A narcissist’s rage is about control. When you do something they cannot control, they rage. The rage is the attempt to regain control through fear and intimidation. If you are terrified, they are back in power.