I got a friend who don't tell nobody nothing. You don’t know she’s about to move till she moves, about to get a car till she got one, her and her boyfriend problems ain’t our business. And I always thought she wasn't being a friend just because she didn't tell her business. But I see why she don't. Its nothing personal but it's just her business and as I get older I definitely see why.
tbh, i don’t blame the girls. i blame the system that forced silence, distance, and years of pretending nothing happened. so hearing sica perform snsd songs again healed something in me i didn’t even realize was still hurting. like a part of my youth finally got acknowledged 🫂
I genuinely believe after a certain age you need to have honest conversations with yourself like, I shouldn't be drinking this much, I shouldn't be wasting money like this, I shouldn't be sleeping around like this, I shouldn't be eating so unhealthy, I shouldn't be badmouthing people like this, because you can get away with a lot of unhealthy habits while you are younger but everything eventually catches up with you and there's always a price to pay, you end up paying for it for the rest of your remaining days on earth & it's not worth it.
Not so long ago, I had a discussion about how much women love horror games but I had some men commenting "that's not true! Women pretend to play this genre for pick me reasons! Lol!!", while the genre is full of titles focused on womanhood related themes. For example, these ones: