Be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
Romans 12:2
I don’t know what 19-25 year old woman needs to hear this, but: You should not ever have to beg someone to love you. To do things for you. To do things with you. A person that loves you will hear you. They will listen. They will make an effort