Never doubt those intuitive feelings you get about people. If they rub you the wrong way, see that as a clear sign to remove yourself. Listen to your spirit...it knows.
Getting over people is much easier when you analyze the situation and understand that 1) they do not like you as much as you deserve to be liked and thatโs not a problem, itโs just what it is. 2) more often than not they are not special, you were doing the heavy lifting
How someone reacts to your sadness should tell you all you need to know about how long they're going to be in your life. If you're truly ready for love, stop tolerating emotional unavailable people who aren't ready to meet you there. You deserve the empathy you give others.
Stop trying to fix him. "Heโs scared." "Heโs depressed." "But, he went through a bad breakup." "But, he had a bad childhood." "But, he's going through shit right now."
But, but, but, how is that your fucking problem? Sounds like a HIM problem.
Try to save him, and you'll drown.