I absolutely learned my lesson. growing up I watched my grandma provide a home for those who didn’t have one + I have a very hospitable family so I didn’t think twice when a friend needed to stay with me until she got back on her feet.
never again.
The worst thing that you could ever do, is come into somebody’s home and space and try to invalidate them, their order and their routine in their own home. Home is a sanctuary. It’s a declaration of who you are, your own inner strength and the fruits of your labour. Never let anyone disrespect or undermine you in your own home, or you’ll never forgive yourself for it..
people love you + think you’re a great person until they can’t use you anymore. then you’re a villain.
this past eclipse season just closed out all people pleasing cycles.
tell the people who you set boundaries with to cry about it
can someone find me an IP address so I can acquire someone’s legal information for lawyers?
I don’t play about threats. and it seems liberals are very evil spirited + likes to throw them around when people don’t agree with them. very mentally unwell.
as you start to become more raw and authentic and step onto your true path, you will be tested.
you will lose the false support + it will seem like everyone’s turning against you.
but you are no longer a performer so those who were here to simply be entertained must fall away.
hang tight, true support is on the way.
protect your mental health. please. we will see chaos become the new normal + people will look at you like you’re the crazy one. the insanity will also go around like an illness.
people foam at the mouth when they come across people who don’t live for their approval
not everyone is here to make you comfortable + if you think so good luck in 2026.
people pleasing is OVER.
a huge theme I’m seeing from my client readings for 2026 is that:
2026 is the year where a lot of people will finally stop performing and people pleasing. like no more living for other people.