Fortunately, this doesn't apply to me. When I get into a relationship, I always give my all so that no matter how it ends, I walk away with no regrets & 'if only'.
Like Joshua Baraka said, "Running away isn't moving on."
Take time, face those triggers & heal. It's a process.
This sentence by Van Gogh hits hard:
“If I am worth anything later, I am worth something now. For wheat is wheat, even if people think it is a grass in the beginning.”
If I find my own Randell Pearson or Derek shepherd I should now let him go because of genotype? We will adopt and find a way around all that , I never cared 🙂↔️
My boyfriend always says if a genotype and the love of biological children stops you from being with someone you love, you don’t really love the person
So glad I learned how to turn this off. Spiritually its a form of mental bondage. Lot's wife turned into a pillar of salt for this and that's what you are when you become a slave to nostalgia. Renew your mind daily. All you ever have is the present. Be where your feet are.
One of her first birthday gifts was a Canadian passport. 🇨🇦
She will never be asked where she is really from.
She will never have to prove her accent is real.
She will never sit in an embassy queue hoping someone believes her life is worth a visa.
She was born inside the door I spent years trying to open.
That is the gift.
Meh.
Your children need to see you work.
It shapes them in some way. Their small minds can’t comprehend things in this way.
They need to see you working.
If I am super rich, my daughter can tell her friends in school that I ‘sleep’. I don't care. I’ll still pick her up from school with a RR.
It is only a matter of time before her friends will start wishing that their fathers also ‘sleep’. There are things that doesn't bother me.