Your mothers’ and grandmothers’ lives do not revolve around your existence. They have experiences from before you existed that they wouldn’t trade for an extra ten years with you, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Go have your own diva
@sourkrowt This happened to me to but instead of just my mom knowing the whole family knew since I was 5 and I recently found out they used to huddle up and bet on when I would come out