@jerseyh0mo So many people speak thought to mouth and do not filter. Thoughts are not bad, and we often cannot control them... but when we give them intention and external direction, a lot can happen. Considering before speaking is a beautiful thing.
@kemekit Everyone is talking about Doxy... but that doesn't fix HPV (the vaccine only covers some strains of HPV) or HSV-1 or -2... without condoms, how do other people deal with these things if not with communication? I'm genuinely curious.
if a sex partner tells you they tested positive for an sti, the *only* correct response is โsorry youโre dealing with that. thanks for letting me know. iโll get tested right away.โ no more, no less, no questions. itโs really that simple
@DustinNorris I agree. I also think when people ask how I'm doing, and I respond in kind, and they use the self-invitation to hi-jack the following conversation is๐ฉ
Maybe this stuff is why most people go the ultra-polite "fine" route?