i really thought this girl was gonna be in my life for a long time. i got so comfortable with her that I stopped imagining my life without her in it. we talked every day , told each other everything and make plans like we were actually building something together. then slowly she started becoming distant. less calls, short replies, less effort. I kept trying harder because I thought she was going through something. eventually she told me she just wasn't happy anymore. no cheating, no huge argument . she just stopped seeing a future with me , that shit hurt because I was planning mine with her