As gents we must understand that love is not a scarce resource but wealth is, that is the most important thing for us to get. That is where heartbreak and misery should reside in our conscious not another human being. Perspective change majita.
Your partner will out-grow you the minute you don't match their new expectations or the phase of their new lives. I had to dissect my past relationship/s and realized that a change in their quality of life supersedes any loving or commitment.
Just know that you haven't figured life out yet, so treat people with respect and dignity. When you were in the wrong apologize because when it is your turn life will humble you. Not karma but the energy you portray in society will meet you head on!
The idea of a broad coalition may be attractive but you cannot pull and keep parties together on the basis of what or who they don't want. Without a shared outlook or principles it only produces opportunism . You can't just cobble parties together because they are not the ANC. Principle is very important.
If you are depicting that those areas are not cared for because of an elected ANC Councilor, I would ask how is the Council and Executive in City of Cape Town remedying that issue, or are you alluding service delivery is selective based on political affiliation?
@Mateboho_ml So when you say the 'areas' that have ANC councilors are not being catered and cared for means there is a consensus in doing so from the City Council which is majority ruled by the DA, and in turn you really are stating that the DA is being selective in Service delivery
@Mateboho_ml Ousie waka, what you are saying is really concerning at a point of being a prospective academic and civil servant. Once elected officials get into Council or Office they represent every one and make decisions accordingly to the authority vested by council or the executive....
Be funny how we look down upon people speaking English with a SAn native accent. Other countries do so without discrimination in fact we mimic them. But it's crazy how be judging not hyping and owning our homeland accents when we speak English. We end being teachers ze Engels.