Over-explaining is a coping mechanism from: not being believed, from consistently being invalidated, or for being shamed for our choices as a child.
It can look like: adding in many details and trying to “build our case.”
Can you imagine if 56 years of hurt finally ends… at Wembley…. against Germany.
And it’s the women - who weren’t even allowed to play when England last won anything - who finally bring football Home.
What a story.