Your life is going to spoil if you don’t learn to disappoint your parents early. And by that, I don’t mean becoming a nuisance to society or a disgrace to your family.
You must learn to rebel against your parents early in life. Let them know that you are a difficult child who doesn’t fold easily.
If you take every piece of advice your parents give you, especially if you come from a poor home, you might never make it out of the trenches.
African parents, especially, are not always open-minded. Many still think like it’s 2005. They are people pleasers who care more about what people will say than what you want or what will make you happy. Disappoint them early so they can bring you down from the pedestal they have placed you on. It will help you go far in life.
There are adults who cannot travel to another city in search of greener pastures because their parents are too strict.
There are adults, especially Christians, who cannot wear trousers, earrings, wigs, lip gloss, etc., because their parents still hold on to archaic beliefs that these things are sinful. They still hide to do things that make them happy simply because they have not broken free.
Heck, there are adults who still have curfews because they have controlling parents. And we both know this is not always about protection.
Have you ever wondered why, no matter how much their parents criticize the black sheep of the family, they often seem to have more freedom and even more opportunities to succeed? It’s because they have broken free. Their “Giran mentality” has helped them discover their own paths early in life.
Until you realize that your parents can unintentionally sabotage your life, you might never find the courage to rebel against their control. And if you don’t rebel and fight for your own life, you might never break free.
You are a human being with your own goals, dreams, and aspirations. You are not an extension of your parents, nor are you an experiment designed to correct their mistakes.
They will be disappointed in you. They will complain, criticize you, and call you names. But I promise you, they will adjust. They will get used to the new program, and they will be fine.
It appears his mercies are new this morning. Reliable sources report they were new yesterday morning and are forecasted to be new tomorrow morning as well. Truly remarkable stuff going on here.
A reminder of why it’s important to choose the right life partner.
Adam Neumann remembers the moment he realised he'd lost everything.
He says it was the first time his wife had ever seen him cry, but her reaction wasn't panic. She told him they could move in with her parents, take a few months, and figure out what came next.
If he wanted to go back into business, she believed he'd succeed again. If not, they could move to Costa Rica, live simply and surf every day.
Sometimes you learn the most about the people around you when you're at your lowest.
@garrygumi@MoWT_Uganda@KCCAUG True. It seems we have accepted them. Nothing angers me like different types and sizes of bumps, humps, strips on our roads. No scientific justifications. They just erect whatever crappie they want of the contractor feels like
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Here’s to the next chapter, together! 🎉
Happy 250th Birthday, America!
Please @MoWT_Uganda , use this Lira-Kamudini road as a gold standard for Highways. The warning strips are warning strips. Not bumps meant to destroy cars. They are placed about 100 yards from the hump. The humps are gentle humps. The signs are exactly where they are supposed to be. Was this by an accident? Doesn't the ministry have technical specifications? Same should apply to @KCCAUG . Your humps, warning strips are destructive.
STATEMENT TO THE PEOPLE OF TOORO
Fellow Batooro, friends of Tooro and all those who mourn with us,
As we prepare to receive His Majesty the Omukama and ultimately lay our King to rest, I appeal to every Mutooro to conduct ourselves with the dignity, restraint and decorum befitting this solemn moment.
We have lost our King. We have lost a son of Tooro whose life, leadership and service carried the name of our Kingdom far beyond our borders.
At this moment, our responsibility is not to allow disagreements, speculation or competing narratives to define these final days. Our responsibility is to protect His Majesty’s memory, honour his legacy and give him the dignified farewell he deserves.
Moments like these require leadership, not posturing. They require less talking and more organising. We are all grieving and emotions are understandably high, but leadership requires us to rise above those emotions, lead by example and never lose sight of the bigger picture.
The world is watching us, but more importantly, the people of Tooro are looking to us for leadership. How we conduct ourselves during this difficult period reflects on all Batooro. Let us therefore demonstrate the values for which our people are known: dignity, respect, unity and love for our Kingdom.
I am aware that questions have been raised regarding some of the circumstances surrounding His Majesty’s time abroad and the communication around it. I wish to clarify one matter respectfully.
The information communicated to the public that His Majesty was abroad studying, and subsequently that he was well, was communicated in accordance with His Majesty’s express wishes and direction. As someone serving him, it was my responsibility to respect his wishes and protect his privacy. I did so faithfully and respectfully.
I am also confident that His Majesty acted in good faith. He was confident in his recovery and was looking forward to returning home and reuniting with his people for the 31st Empango. He did not want to cause unnecessary alarm among his people.
Other matters have also been raised. This is neither the time nor the place to debate them. They must not be allowed to create division, controversy or distract us from the enormous responsibility before us.
There will be a proper time and forum, after His Majesty has been laid to rest, to address any matters that require clarification. For now, everything else is secondary.
I therefore appeal especially to Kingdom leaders, cultural leaders, public officials, the media, commentators and everyone using social media to exercise restraint. Words spoken in moments of grief can deepen divisions that may take years to repair. Let us choose words and actions that unite the Batooro and reflect the dignity of the Kingdom.
I also appeal for privacy and respect for the Royal Family and those who were closest to His Majesty. Their grief is deeply personal, and they must be given the space to mourn without intrusion, unnecessary speculation or pressure to speak. Their privacy and dignity should be respected throughout this difficult period.
Our duty now is simple: to receive our King with honour, lay him to rest with dignity, and stand together as one people.
Future generations will remember not only that Tooro lost its King, but also how we conducted ourselves in this moment of grief. Let them remember a people who chose unity over division, service over posturing, and leadership over controversy.
Until His Majesty has been laid to rest, let us remain united and focused on giving him the peaceful and honourable farewell he deserves.
In all that we say and do, Tooro must come first.
LIFE HACK:
Do your upcountry trips starting at 4:00am.
No bodas on the road most of the journey.
Very few cars on the road.
Cold air means less strain on your Engine and A/C.
Plus, you get to your destination and still have your entire day to yourself!
Please beware this No-U-turn traffic sign has been installed opposite the Mall/ Kyadi at Nakawa on Jinja road. The sign is covered by tree leaves, so not easy to see. Instant charge of sh 100K for violation. 😂
🏆 Referee announced for 2026 #SuperCup!
We're pleased to share that Somali referee Omar Artan will officiate the highly anticipated match between PSG and Aston Villa in Salzburg.