As a parent you shouldn't be telling your kids that you sacrificed your life for them, It’s hurtful and manipulative, and it’s not true. You chose to have your kids and nobody forced you to have them. Taking care of them is your responsibility.
There's usually a conversation for if your friend doesn't update you on the important things happening in their lives they're sijui not your friend or they think you're evil. My take on it is so different.
I was telling my homeboy how hard dating is because I’m picky. This fool looked me dead in the eye and said, ‘I’ve seen your exes. You are NOT picky.’ 😭😂