PLAYERS: When coaches, teachers, or parents push you or hold you to high standards, it's often because they want you to be better. They want you to reach your potential. They want you to achieve your goals. Be coachable and appreciate how they might be able to help you.
POWER OF FAILURE
"I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over again in my life ... ๐๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ก๐ฒ ๐ ๐ฌ๐ฎ๐๐๐๐๐."
~ Michael Jordan
COACHES: Just because we have "good kids" doesn't mean our team's leadership is strong. "Good kids" still need to be trained, equipped, taught, and shown how to use their qualities to impact the team and their teammates. We can't assume our kids know how to be positive leaders.
Your job as a coach is to get the program to its ceiling. The ceiling is different at each place. This can be a very difficult concept for parents, players, coaches, and administration to understand. Work to get your program to its individual ceiling.
"Winning is fun... Sure. But winning is not the point. Wanting to win is the point. Not giving up is the point. Never letting up is the point. Never being satisfied with what you've done is the point." -- Pat Summitt
Mentally tough people arenโt necessarily more talented or skilled than other people. Mentally tough people just tend to be more consistent, persistent, and resilient.
When coachable players are held accountable, they understand it's for the good of the team and seek to learn from the situation.
Uncoachable players think they're being picked on and play the blame game when held accountable.
I donโt know if former players will ever fully understand how much joy it brings their coach to get a call, text, postcard, picture, letter from a former player just checking in.
To all the former players out there who do thatโฆit matters, because you matter to them.
Thank you.
One thing I believe has changed in the culture of this country is that we don't want anybody to fail.
We don't want anyone to get knocked down; everybody gets a trophy.
Nobody knows how to handle adversity when they get knocked down.
When things aren't going well, you pick yourself up.
You have two choices: either keep going, or stay down.