onesilentguy

A burning guy

[Karun Pal @karunpal]

If you want to live a life that feels like your own, learn to break norms. Be slow when the world is addicted to fast. Don’t follow trends, break them. Go to bed early. Watch 3 hour talks. Read books for hours at a time. Watch the entire movie, without taking a break. Go for long walks just with your thoughts. Avoid drama. Keep your life private. Get bored. Let your imagination return. Most people are anxious, distracted, and disconnected from themselves. The opposite of brain rot is deep attention. In a world designed to distract you, focus is an act of rebellion.

[𝙃𝘼𝙕𝙀𝙉𝙇𝙀𝙀 @hazenlee]

我很负责任告诉你，直接把好的东西给你，你是接不住的。你要先经历磨难，背叛、欺骗，看淸人性冷暖，看淸众生相。斩断纯真，扼杀幼稚，磨掉傲慢与自以为是。不经历这些，你一辈子也看不清自己原有价值体系中的虚妄，更不会珍惜。所以即使有好运你也留不住。
内观，自醒，见天地、见众生、见自己。等到你深度觉醒之后，自强不息，厚德载物，好运才会真正开启。
而好运的本质就是结构，只有一个稳定的结构你才能承接，否则都是竹篮打水一场空。

[Wei @wei_wang]

等你们过了 25 岁就知道了

约会上千个女性，睡 500 多个美女，真的没有想象中那么爽

只是人在很弱的时候，才会把这种东西当成人生战绩

真正爽的是什么？

是你娶到一个自己真心喜欢、颜值也很顶的老婆，生一个很可爱的儿子女儿，每天看着他们一点点长大

那种稳定、确定、属于自己的幸福感，真的不是外面乱七八糟的刺激能比的

低级爽是数量

高级爽是拥有一个完整的小世界

[blue @bluewmist]

Every time you avoid something uncomfortable, your brain reinforces the idea that avoidance works. It literally strengthens the pathways that make hesitation, procrastination, or excuses automatic. And every time you do the hard thing -even imperfectly your brain is building a new pathway: this is something I can do.

[BITWU.ETH 🔆 @Bitwux]

看人之短，天下之人无一人可交。
看人之长，天下之人皆是吾师！

抱着这个心态去social，永远不会错！

[Dear Son. @DearS_o_n]

If they don't involve you, step back.
If they don't tell you, don't ask.
If they don't invite you, don't go.
If they don't value you, don't stay.

Know your place in people's lives.

It's not ego. It's self-respect.

[李百万 @Libaiwan168]

说一个冷知识

好多商业合作的机会其实都来自于

约跑，骑行，徒步，登山，钓鱼，宠物等群

反正多和闲人玩就对了，因为牛马都在打工

[JewBiz @JewBizLogic]

1、和任何人说话时，都当对方在录音。

2、当你不断批评孩子的时候，她不会停止爱你，但是她会停止爱她自己。

3、人生所有的机遇都藏在恐惧里。

4、享受使用权，放弃占有欲。

5、被爱是人类最后的幻想，放下它你就自由了。

6、尊重每一只青蛙，和它的井。

7、大钱都是大风刮来的。

8、因为知足，所以更接近幸福。

9、最好的养生，不要和任何人走得太近。

10、关于投资，买在无人问津处，卖在人声鼎沸时。

11、上山就是上山，砍柴就是砍柴，做饭就是做饭，如果上山是为了砍柴，砍柴是为了做饭，心就会很累。

12.时间不是解药，但解药藏在时间里。

[Malvin @ManOfFocus_]

A man without money is a man without a voice. You could be the smartest man in the room, but if your pockets are empty, no one listens. Family and relatives are only nice when you have something to offer. Get up every day and work like hell. The world is very cruel to a poor man.

[Deep Psychology @DeepPsycho_HQ]

Neverrr neverrrr look desperate in life. Remain calm during hard times. Understand it’s just your time to suffer like every great man before you.

[Dear Son. @DearS_o_n]

the first step is CASHFLOW. You need a source that vomits cash predictably and frequently. No matter how small.

[Leon @MindMatterMoney]

A man is happiest when he is making money, owning businesses, buying massive land, having a home gym, and building a big family.

Everything else is a distraction.

[Leon @MindMatterMoney]

You grind for years with nothing to show. Family thinks you're crazy. You lose friends. Then, one year, everything explodes. All those wasted years suddenly make sense.

Young men, your breakthrough is coming.

[Davidzhu @DavidzhuLife]

普通人翻身的机会，其实只有一次：把所有时间，聚焦在一件事上。把所有能量，凝聚在一个点上。

不留退路，不给自己借口。孤注一掷，破釜沉舟。以近乎搏命的姿态，下定必死的决心，死磕到底，硬生生把它打穿。

除此之外，再无胜算了！

[Dear Son. @DearS_o_n]

Your prime is not in your 20s. Your prime is the moment you realize nobody is coming to save you and you have to do the work on your own.

[N.M.A @peculiarchichii]

Making serious money as a man requires becoming someone most people would hate.

You have to be disciplined and ruthless.

Nice men rarely get rich.

[blue @bluewmist]

With books unread, muscles untrained, and thousands of skills untouched - if you're bored, you're not even trying.

[blue @bluewmist]

Ten lazy years can disappear the moment you lock in. Six months of discipline can erase a decade of drifting. Momentum is magic. It turns yesterday's failures into tomorrow's fuel.

[Dear Son. @DearS_o_n]

Discipline is boring.

Hard work is boring.

Studying is boring.

Doing the same thing every day is boring.

Dear son, if you want to go far in life, learn to be bored, silent, and alone.