Quick update:
Life is so good!
Casey and I are doing so well. We've both moved to new jobs in the past few years, are working on saving up for a house in the next year or two.
Our little guy is AMAZING. He turned three recently, he's funny, smart, and SUCH an asshole.
I don't have a lot of time to create, when we put him in bed in the evening I just chill, read, and play Stardew Valley! I just reread Heaven Official's Blessing for like the millionth time.
@Katexx0x @HeyItsFayne @grandtheftnoise@MakadishaPE She’s also allowed to be traumatized. She’s mourning a loss, and facing the unexpected reality of sudden death. And having to tell loved ones? That’s a big ask for a roommate, when it’s often something even trained professionals struggle with emotionally.
Ma’am, take a good look at who supported you before this announcement, and then take a good look at who’s supporting you in the comments of this post. Who do you want your people to be?
@sodomylover Also, their stupid joke makes no sense because there’s no mandated service in the USA. Don’t enlist honey, you can already go Do something else!
Not that I’m there. I’ll never be there. I always can, and I always will, because there are people who matter more to me than me. But fuck. It hurts a lot.
I think, a lot of the time, my mental health is carefully guarded by my pragmatism. “Of course I can keep going, what choice do I have?” has become my battle cry. But sometimes breathing hurts so fucking much than you start to understand the people who can’t.