brat by nature, goddess by choice ๐
I love generosity & hate excuses ๐ธ
kiss the fantasy, fund the lifestyle ๐
you know what to do, baby. $37 tribute.
I genuinely feel like parts of findom are dying.
Being a financial dominatrix was never supposed to be just about taking money. Thereโs so much more to financial control than collecting tributes.
Budgeting with your sub. Setting spending limits. Deciding how much they can spend in a day, week, or month. Helping manage their finances. Even discussing things like what theyโre going to eat for the week.
That level of control and involvement is what makes me feel so much more dominant than simply receiving a tribute.
I want the actual connection. I want to sit down with my sub, go through their finances, discuss their spending, and have an active role in their financial life with their consent and agreed boundaries, obviously.
That side of findom feels like itโs disappearing because everyone wants to be a Domme where the work stops at โsend me money.โ
But being a financial Domme can involve so much more than taking.
Letโs clarify something because apparently some of you got lost.
Findom is about making your Goddessโs life easier. Fulfilling her wishes. Being useful. Your reward is that she acknowledges your existence.
The moment you start dangling money in front of her like โI will send IF/WHEN you do this,โ youโve lost the plot.
Thatโs not submission. Thatโs a transaction.
If you want to negotiate what a woman does in exchange for your money, go find a sugar baby.
You are trying to train the woman you came here to obey. Whatever rearranges brain cells, book yourself in twice.