“I am sad for the young woman who wanted to be loved so badly that she chose the first person who promised it. He did to an extent, but then when she said she needed more, he pretended not to hear. When she cried and said she felt alone, he didn’t wipe away her tears. When she pleaded with him to talk to her, he said, “I just don’t have the emotions you do.”1/2
I have ADHD and the most useful thing anyone has ever said to me was: the goal is not to become neurotypical. the goal is to build a life that works for the brain you actually have.
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Your girlfriend defending another man to you is one of the most disrespectful things she can do.
She will never defend you to that same man.
Remember that bro 😜
If you’re a woman and you’ve been talking to a guy for over three months, you just need to walk away.
Three months is plenty of time for a man to determine, “Okay, this is my girlfriend.” Plenty of time. That’s at least 14 dates right there. 14 entire times that you guys hang out.
And I get a lot of messages from women saying:1/3