betul, semuanya adalah maksiat dan haram.
tapi ada bedanya antara org yg sadar dan tau itu salah, dengan org yg justru merasa benar dan bangga sampai pamer ke org org.
yg pertama masih ada harapan dan kemungkinan besar utk dia bertaubat dan diampuni Allah (apalagi klo dia melakukannya dgn sembunyi2)
sedangkan yg kedua termasuk golongan mujahirin (org yg terang terangan melakukan/menceritakan maksiat di publik dan tdk malu), mereka diancam dosanya tdk terampuni Allah. dan ini berlaku ke semua maksiat; ya ciuman, ya gay, ya zina, ya narkoba, ya korupsi, ya curang, ya merusak alam, ya menghardik org miskin, dll.
we are all sinners? yes of course.
urus dosa masing masing? no. apalagi ini berbangga diri dan promosi maksiatnya sampe ngatain homophobic ke semua org yg menentang gay. ada kewajiban amar ma’ruf nahi munkar dlm islam ya guys ya 🥰(surah Al Asr : 1-3)
semakin belajar islam makin paham kalo :
🔅ngurangin timbangan dalam jual beli itu dosa besar bahkan dilaknat Allah
🔅nunda bayar gaji pekerja itu dosa besar
🔅jual beli di dalam masjid itu haram
🔅nunda bayar hutang padahal bisa foya foya itu dzolim
🔅jangan bermudah mudah ambil pinjaman berbunga. riba itu dosa besar
🔅salah satu ciri mukmin itu yg jujur dlm jual beli
🔅kalau minjem barang sama org lain, wajib kembalikan. dan harus dlm keadaan asal saat dipinjam. kalo ada yg rusak, jujur dan ganti rugi kecuali orgnya yg ridho
This is one of the most common silent struggles destroying young people today, be it Muslims or non-Muslims.
If I am to answer your question straight away. Yes. Allah will forgive you. The fact that you feel this shame and guilt, and you are asking this question means your heart is still very much alive.
The biggest trick Shaytan plays on you happens the moment you close the tab. He drops a heavy blanket of shame on you. He wants you to feel so dirty and so hypocritical for breaking your promise to Allah that you stop asking for forgiveness.
He wants you to think your repentance is fake. Do not buy that lie. If you fall a thousand times, you crawl back a thousand and one times. Allah's mercy does not have a limit. Shaytan just wants to put a limit in your head.
Having said that, we need to talk about the real problem here. I know you want a solution. But you know what? Relying on pure willpower will never work. I know you know this too. Therefore, we have to look at why you keep going back.
Based on what I have read, porn is rarely about physical desire. It is a painkiller. It is a coping mechanism. When you are stressed, feeling deeply lonely, or overwhelmed by a reality you do not want to face, your brain looks for a quick hit of dopamine to numb the pain. And since we are a free hyper-sexualized world, you find it very easy to use your screen as an escape hatch.
However, when the high wears off, the reality you ran away from is still waiting for you. Now it is compounded by spiritual guilt. That guilt creates more stress. That stress triggers the urge to escape again. It is a vicious loop. I know you’ve been in this vicious cycle several times, hence your question…
If I am prescribe a permanent and sustainable cure for you, the best way is to read and learn the root psychology of sins yourself. Forget all those tips you see online. The best way is to immerse yourself in knowledge. This is because if you know it, it will help you prevent it, break it if you are in it, and teach you the way out.
I am prescribing a book that has rescued millions of people from this very pit. You need to read "The Disease and the Cure" (Al-Daa' wa al-Dawaa') by Imam Ibn al-Qayyim.
A man came to Ibn al-Qayyim centuries ago. He was completely broken. He asked if there was any hope for a sin that had completely hijacked his life. The Imam wrote this entire book as a direct response to that one man. It is a profound masterclass in human psychology.
Ibn al-Qayyim breaks down the anatomy of a sin. He shows you how a passing thought turns into a whisper. He shows how that whisper becomes a burning urge, and how that urge hardens into a chain around your neck. He teaches you how to intercept the thought at the root before it gains power over your limbs. He also teaches you how to seek divine intervention and how to repair your broken relationship with your lord. These are things you need to know.
Get the English translation. Read it slowly. You have to start addressing the real stress and voids in your life instead of running away from them. Put strict physical blocks on your devices so your moments of weakness require too much effort to act upon.
Ultimately, start making concrete plans for marriage. You need it. Work hard to accelerate your financial freedom and get a wife.
Keep fighting. Those who fight win.
May God make it easy for you and many others who are currently struggling with …
dari Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu ‘anhu, bahwa Rasulullah ﷺ bersabda:
“barang siapa mengucapkan:
*لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له، له الملك وله الحمد وهو على كل شيء قدير*
sebanyak seratus kali dalam sehari, maka baginya:
- pahala seperti memerdekakan sepuluh budak,
- dituliskan baginya seratus kebaikan,
- dihapuskan darinya seratus kesalahan,
- menjadi pelindung baginya dari godaan setan pada hari itu hingga petang,
- tidak ada seorang pun yang datang dengan amalan yang lebih utama darinya, kecuali orang yang mengucapkannya lebih banyak dari itu.”
H.R Al-Bukhari dan Muslim.
(cr : whatsapp channel matsabah مثابة)
punya siapapun selain Aku, dan tidakkah engkau melihat betapa sulitnya ia berperang dengan pikirannya hanya ingin mengingatKu?
Aku tahu dia terpaksa tapi Aku tetap mencintainya, karena dia sudah berusaha untuk mengingatKu.
سبحان الله و بحمده سبحان الله العظيم
Malaikat bertanya,
Ya Allah apa aku harus mencatat ibadah hambamu ini?
Sedangkan ia beribadah tapi hati dan pikirannya tidak.
Lalu ia hanya mengingatMu dikala sedih, setelah bahagia engkau kembali.
Allah menjawab,
Tidakkah engkau melihat wahai malaikat, hambaku ini tidak
Pertanyaan ini sering dianggap "skakmat" sama atheis "edgy"
Padahal ini justru menunjukan tidak paham bedanya Temporal Causality sama Vertical Causality
Sebagai mantan atheis, sini saya jelaskan dengan analogi Alam Semesta ini kayak menara Jenga
Bismillah 🧵
⚠️muslim only⚠️
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