I notice the smallest gestures. Filling someone’s cup when you refill yours. Walking at their pace instead of leaving them behind. Stopping occasionally so they can catch up. Teaching them something today because you know they’ll need it tomorrow. Being gentle because you know they’re having a difficult day. Love doesn’t require telepathy. It requires paying attention to the person in front of you and anticipating what might make their life a little easier.
don’t leave anything for later.
later, the coffee gets cold.
later, you lose interest.
later, the day turns into night.
later, people grow up.
later, people grow old.
later, life goes by.
later, you regret not doing something… and you had the chance.
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"i love u"
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"how lucky i am to stand by your side and soak up even a little bit of your light. if my only purpose in life is to love a woman as great as you... then i will be a very fulfilled man, indeed."
A woman’s brain cannot relax until she feels physically and emotionally safe. A lot of men don’t understand how much energy women expend checking that they’re safe. Providing an environment where she can turn that part of her brain off lets her truely settle into her femininity.