my momma always told me a real woman stands on everything she says or does. right, wrong, or indifferent. one of the best pieces of advice I’ve ever gotten.
Vengeful people who refuse to take accountability are dangerous. They intentionally misunderstand that for every action there’s a reaction. They start the fire blame everyone else for the smoke then spend their time plotting revenge instead of accepting they lit the match.
i actually think "surface level" friendships are very healthy. not everyone in your life has to be your ride or die. some friends are for the gym. some are for going out. some are just for complaining about work or bureaucracy. when you stop expecting everyone to be your everything, the disappointment disappears. those deep convos and connections are for the 2-3 people closest to you
I do not play about people telling my business. I don’t care if you told someone I have a trip coming up or what I ate for breakfast! I won’t tell you anything else. I don’t like a person who talk to much about what I got going on