@jtskaggs08@tilitstenk@nypost you get to look at the menu before you choose what you want, there shouldn't be more desire to look at what else there is if you've already looked before you chose.
@Jogdon1500@starrinkss i didn't say that you said that? i'm saying there's a healthy level of disappointment in that situation, and that *if* you felt so disappointed you couldn't love your child anymore, that u should get help. but if there was one thing i'd put in your mouth, it wouldn't be words ๐
@Jogdon1500@starrinkss i believe you're allowed to be disappointed, but if it disappoints you so much that you just can't bring yourself to love your kid anymore, you won't have to worry about them as soon as they move out. orrr you could get help and be the parent they deserve. it's your choice
@playdostheory@RATKINGX3 i think they meant like... their parents and your parents are similar. but i think your point of "people are not defined by their disorders" still stands, because we cannot truly know how your parents are unless we were to meet them for whatever reason