You keep choosing them by refusing to make permanent decisions based on temporary feelings.
There are days my husband annoys me, and there are days I annoy him too. 😅
At the end of the day, I remind myself that we're not enemies. We're two people learning each other and doing life together.
My husband and I have had moments where one of us was tired, stressed, overwhelmed, or didn't communicate well. In those moments, I try to remember who he is consistently: a good man with a good heart.
Love isn't just a feeling, it's choosing the same person, over and over again, even when the day itself wasn't great.
I never imagined that a lighthearted video with my 15-year old brother would be taken from my Snapchat, reposted across different platforms, and turned into an excuse to bully a child.
Some of you have left cruel comments. Others have gone as far as editing his photos to make him look bigger just to get a few laughs.
Read that again.
Adults are editing the image of a 15 year old boy and publicly mocking him.
My brother did nothing except exist in a funny video with his sister.
If your idea of entertainment is tearing down a child, then that’s a reflection of your character, not his.
He’s kind. He’s loved. He’s growing, learning, and becoming the amazing young man I know he will be. No hateful comment or edited photo will ever change that.
I hope, before you type another insult or share another edited image, you remember that there is a real teenager on the other side of your screen reading what you write.
Do better
Don't lose your family to me. If they don't accept me, I'm not marrying you. It is not me that would separate you from your family.
Men are plenty. Women are plenty. Soulmate is a myth.
When you start writing paragraphs of how you want to be treated… You need to remember that men move mountains for the women they love.
Delete that paragraph sis.
When I was single, I always said I wasn’t in a hurry. I refused to settle or overlook red flags because I knew what I wanted, and I know it existed.
I’m so glad I never lowered my standards just to be “married” . Today, I’m married to my answered prayers. ❤️