nickie de vaal

[nickie de vaal @gihjee]

C'est la vie, mon ami.

[nickie de vaal @gihjee]

O: I can’t sleep Ma
Me: why not
O: I have too much on my mind
Me: like what mama
O: like when Jupiter was the biggest planet and what’d happen if the sun didn’t exist and how unicorns only exist on Pluto
Me:….
Um. Wha?

[nickie de vaal @gihjee]

Kids down before 7pm, I feel invincible

[nickie de vaal @gihjee]

God I need a favor

[Emily♡ @ItsEmilyKaty]

ADHD-ers usually have an interest-based nervous system. Meaning that a task needs either novelty, urgency, competition or interest for them to be motivated or focused. Learning this and adapting boring, everyday tasks to fit into one of these categories can be life-changing.

[nickie de vaal @gihjee]

Everyone: “welcome to the 30s club, it’s so much fun”
Me: *wakes up with back pain and gastritis*

[nickie de vaal @gihjee]

I just want an espresso martini. That’s all.

[Laura- destiny @dxstinyy00]

I saw this tiktok of examples of love languages and I love how they’ve shown the less obvious examples

[nickie de vaal @gihjee]

I legit wanna punch Francesca. How am I so invested in reality tv🤦🏻‍♀️

[J @itsjulianaab]

I dont want a life partner who cheated, broke my heart & then we have to work to reconcile. That’s not what I desire. So many relationships are just that… I wanna brag differently knowing I didn’t have to go through all tht before my partner realizes he wants me & only me.

[Idil Ahmed @idillionaire]

Believe in it until it manifests for you. Don’t overthink how it will happen. Don’t worry about when it will happen. Just believe in it. Believe in yourself. Allow it. Trust it.

[nickie de vaal @gihjee]

My 2.5 yr old crying cause it isn’t her bday today … 🫠🫠🫠

[Syed Balkhi @syedbalkhi]

Your actions mean nothing if they are not aligned with who you want to become.

[nickie de vaal @gihjee]

This is a real question I constantly have for all my soflo friends. I JUST WANNA KNOW. AND REPLICATE.

[nickie de vaal @gihjee]

Pique gaining .8M followers post Sharika song makes me sick lol

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

The health of your relationship will depend on how comfortable you can get with having uncomfortable conversations on a regular basis.

[life-coach|Speaker| Yvette Ratshikhopha📚🌍 @Yvette_Aloe]

Gentle parenting is actually about you learning to manage your anger and emotions, you working on your communication style, you learning to affirm more than you criticize, you learning to be patient, gentle parenting isn't just about the kids,it starts with reparenting yourself.

[Gary Goodridge @garyhgoodridge]

Be teachable. You’re not always right.

[Dr. Nicole LePera @Theholisticpsyc]

In relationships, we will all hurt people we love. This is why it's important to learn how to authentically apologize.

How to Authentically Apologize:

[Rain @emowear333]

I once begged someone to love me the way I loved them and that's the saddest thing I've ever done

[Self Love. Dating. Relationships. God. @StephanSpeaks]

Never beg for someone's love