@IfyAdsCoach@SportyStacey7 Bro this life is mysterious i tell you. Nah God if just Dey even use that person tell the man something oh. This life nothing person no Dey see
Bringing religion into a common sense situation is why we are divided. Completely ignoring the problem and call out religion? No clever! Lastly, one is allow to take food out from another, while theirs prosper. lol. “He is harsh but they are not”?
@bigAshe7@joshua_amaju@NigeriaStories lol you make me laugh, I’m sure you don’t have a business so pretty much have no clue what it means or feels like to constantly keep having your business destroyed. Imagine if some trains a wolf and they come eat your cattles every time. You will thank them.
I understand you sis, but personal as a woman who works and earns like a man. If I was a lesbian, ain’t no way I am giving a girl whose only responsibility is to sit at home and eat my money any “assistance”.
The 1m monthly I am giving her, I am paying for it in mental and physical stress she can never endure. She sees the credit alerts and thinks it’s easy because her partner is a lawyer doing well.
The time and energy i am putting in to get the money she’s enjoying, the least she can do is reciprocate by holding down her side (home care).
The least she can do is make sure when I get home there is food and the house is neat. I don’t ask her to go through work stress with me. Why am I the one subjected to add to my stress to make things easier for her? Is she following me to EFCC and enduring stress all day to secure 2m fees from yahoo boys?
I cannot spend my whole day perceiving body odour in SARS cell while discussing with clients, spend my entire day in court and I come home and I am expected to cook for who don dey house morning to night. Why?
House wives and SAHM are in no position to complain about their partners not pitching in around the house and I say this as a woman.
The only women entitled to this treatment are the ones who are sharing the financial responsibility with their man eg we both go to work and come home tired.
Both of us can cook together while gisting or if he closes much earlier eg by 2pm while I close past 7 on some days, he can pitch in a little.
Maybe I would have been a very financially supportive and physically unsupportive husband if I was a man, but woman wey dey house as part of my financial problems should not expect me to come back from looking for money to take care of her and still cook and clean for her.
If being a SAHM is too stressful for her then she sef make she join me for street dey hustle.
@Esix96671475@KerenKBitto Marriage is straight forward if both partners understand their roles. And personally giving my partner 1m when she’s not a maid is the dumbest thing I’ve heard. She’s not putting it into any business or investment to also sustain the family? we are fucked.
Correct me if I’m wrong, when you live alone, you do you get paid for cleaning your home?
But when you live with your partner it’s “unpaid labor”?
You tag everything to money when it involves a man. But not yourself .. is this how women operate now?
@shay_will44728@iamdejstoney@DrianneBelleza Girl.. how are you doing that exact same thing a wrote on this CS and dont even realize it? … shay gaslighting don’t work on me. When it’s logical it’s logical. But yes you want me to sugarcoat it “emotional intelligence” you call it? That goes both ways.
@iamdejstoney@shay_will44728@DrianneBelleza Yes… y’all will never understand how frustrating it when a man is being logical then you gaslight with your emotions just to avoid seeing reasons or taking accountability.
If we don’t care about how y’all feel. Then being nonchalant wins.
@shay_will44728@DrianneBelleza lol yes the very word that gives you some sense of relief “narcissistic” well I won’t engage you further. Cause you can of woman that just won’t shut up!