There's something insidiously homophobic about the idea that only queer people are allowed to connect with queer stories (and even then, only queer stories that match their own specific queer sexuality) and anyone else is doing something morally wrong.
@CHAYUJlN I had a mf spoil in the response of one of my comments completely unprompted and I assumed they were cussing bcus ppl will tag cuss words as spoilers sometimes bcus they're DUMB and im still heated over it