some people will not like the version of you that you are becoming because the older version of you is more comfortable for them, more understandable to them, more resonant with them. if your growth intimidates them, you’re not obligated to keep making space for what shrinks you.
Abuse is difficult guys, rape is difficult guys, stop telling people to just report a case, there's some damaging trauma going on in victims minds, you only make the situation worse by telling them they're wrong in how the choose to deal with it.