Im pretty much a virgin on this x space, but i think i like it here. I talk n think too much, but when i type out my thoughts n opinions it eases sth inside me, i hope to grow n find mutuals on here
They don’t want to marry their age mates, but at the same time, they want the young girls they are pursuing to be financially independent and not demand much from them.
They don’t want a woman who makes her own decisions but they want a woman working full time and contributing financially to the household.
They want a full time submissive housewife who earns, submit all to him and allow him decide everything that goes on in the house.
Delulu on steroid
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usually if ppl have few/no friends it’s bc they struggle w/ social skills, depression, or have a busy schedule. none of those are moral failings. however I find it consistent that highly manipulative & selfish ppl are often charismatic & have huge friend groups who enable them
I hit rock bottom after squandering all my savings in reckless financial decisions.
The advice I'll give:
1. Go home. Could be your actual home or wherever feels like home.
2. Eat all you can. Just survive first.
3. Run to a company of men, you'll see that your story isn't unique. My cousin, Chuka, really came through for me and other close friends. Can never forget but I had to open up.
4. Read the book, "Man's Search for Meaning" to put your 'suffering' in context.
5. Pray a prayer of Thanksgiving. Especially if your rock bottom didn't come with a sickness or disease, you can't thank God enough. Just stay grateful without asking for anything for like 4 weeks straight.
6. Know that rebuilding is part of the process and take each day at a time.
Still recovering but the above really helped me.
“There’s a smear campaign against me that I don’t like Yoruba people; it’s not true. They said I instigate tribalism. I’m not into fr&ud, I’m not a cultist, I don’t h8 Yoruba people. I’m a proper Yoruba boy. My name is Lawal Michael Nasiru Bolaji. The government owes us accountability. People can’t be disappearing.”
— Nasboi.
y’all will literally drain the niceness outta a person and then act shocked when they stop being sweet. ain’t nobody born mean… people get worn down, disrespected, and pushed there.
Pray oooo😭😭
May NIGERIA NOT HAPPEN TO YOU!!!
The guy that robbed my house was caught yesterday..
He came to Rob around 2am,he went to my neighbors because since the trauma from mine I don’t sleep at night neither during the day always making noise while working
I’ve lost 30% of my weight as a skinny girl 🥹
So i was called to identify him and when I came out of my gate,a dark guy came close to me as if he wants to hug me,his words:IF YOU TALK ANYTHING CONCERNING MY BROTHER YOU WILL PAY WITH YOUR L*FE
Few people who heard him screamed that it’s a serious threat on my life.
I reported to the POLICE FORCE so he sign an undertaken
Witnesses were called and they testified words to words
GUESS!!
The Police men started speaking hausa with the guy and told me to go home that they will sort it
Forward to today,the same guy chased me with a weapon
The same NIGERIA POLICE FORCE that’s supposed to protect allowed him freely 🥹🥹🥹
Now my life is in Danger because I reported to the same authorities meant to protect
I am at the police station now
I just watched a pornstar’s podcast 😂😂😂.
She said she slept with a guy who had stage 4 cancer because it was his last wish before he died.
They filmed the entire sex and made money from it, which they then used to help pay for his treatment and buy him more time.
One of them said, “I see you used your pussy for goodwill.” 😭😭😭😂😂😂
what pains me is that obi is the only person actually doing any politicking. apc is doing mafia tactics, it’s just that we’re so used to this malformed system that you think obi is weak and incompetent at it
I’ve said this before
We’re all just addicted to the breath work.
I’m still smoking weed but I realized that yrs ago. It’s the deep inhale and exhale that we crave