Mina was a very sweet person. Every time we spoke, she treated me with nothing but kindness. The hatred she received was undeserved and completely disproportionate to what happened.
I understand wanting to protect an artist you love, and I understand how easy it can be to get swept up in the collective mindset that develops within fandom spaces. But please remember that behind every account is a real human being with feelings; a person who, just like you, loves the same artist.
Mina loved Ni-ki deeply, and she never had bad intentions toward the other members. Her work and personal history were dug up, she was called countless cruel names, and the very love and dedication for which she had once been appreciated were suddenly turned into reasons to attack her. For some people, the moments they share with an artist they love are among the few things that help them keep going. Those moments should never be weaponized against them.
Before posting something cruel online, please stop and remember that there is a real person on the other side of the screen. Words have consequences. This goes far beyond ENHYPEN, K-pop, or any fandom dispute.
I still have not received any news from Mina or the police. Please keep her in your thoughts and prayers, no matter what the outcome may be.
If you or someone you know is struggling, please remember that it’s okay to ask for help and that you deserve happiness. Reach out to someone you trust or a mental health professional if you need support. Please continue to look after one another with kindness on the internet and in real life. You matter. You are important, and you are definitely not alone.
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people need to realize that accountability and harassment are two completely different things. calling someone out for harmful behavior is one thing, but once it drives someone to end their life it’s no longer about accountability.
there’s still a real person behind every account and you never know what state of mind they’re in. if someone is genuinely trying to learn from their mistakes there has to be room for growth. we can hold people accountable while still showing compassion and understanding.
i just hope this is a wakeup call for people to be more mindful of the way they treat others online. kindness truly costs nothing and no mistake is ever worth losing a life over. please think before you speak cause your words can carry a lot more weight than you realize.
🚨| Guys please, do not use Chn’s photo with the ultrasound to make “jokes”, we are still talking about his future nephew…it’s not just a piece of paper for him.
We wanted to share a cute moment, seeing also the parents enthusiasm, let’s not transform it in a lack of respect.
@Hxpelxssnxss@jaeyuntuned The agenda is literally changing from a tragic death to a “wrong fandom blame” I just want people to talk about the death as you agreed. Making posts about “image” is so unimportant atp cuz engene image is already messed up in many people’s eyes.
@Divabalikk Gercekten ben goruntuleri de gordum gormez olaydim tr stantwt de pek bisey yok ama globali bir gorsen nasil patliyo engeneler hala fandom imaji icin kendilrini savunuyorlar