justru menurutku salah satu hal paling menyenangkan dari punya pasangan adalah punya seseorang untuk berbagi “small things” dalam hidup.
“tadi aku makan ini”
“hari ini capek banget”
“eh liat deh yang aku temuin”
sampai cerita random yang sebenarnya nggak penting-penting amat 😭
bukan berarti harus selalu bareng, tapi jangan sampai punya pasangan malah bikin kita merasa sendirian ya!
girl, be as picky as you want, because marrying late has never ruined a woman’s life, but marrying the wrong man has destroyed countless. Normalize choosing standards over desperation & freedom over fake fairy tales. because a ring without respect is just a handcuff in disguise.
IKR???? aku juga sebel banget kalau denger "cantik tapi sayang jomblo" like???? siapa yang menyayangkan???? gue sih kagak, lebih sayang kalau cakep-cakep tapi hidupnya muter buat laki doang
find a man yang bisa tetep tenang pas keadaan lagi chaos. someone yang bukannya ikutan panik atau nyalahin kamu, but instead he holds you and says 'it's okay, kita beresin pelan-pelan ya.' having a partner with emotional stability is a top tier flex.
lu nolak cowo dan berakhir enggak dibunuh & diperkosa dia aja UDAH SYUKUR. how naive you can be thinking that the "no" words will do something to make them listen to us?
Başka kadınları arzulamayan bir adamla evleneceğim. Öfkeli olduğunda ondan korkmadığım bir adamla evleneceğim. Beni yüksek sesle seven bir adamla evleneceğim. Düşünceli ve ilgili bir adamla evleneceğim. Sadık ve değerli ilkeleri olan bir adamla evleneceğim.. ya da evlenmeyeceğim