I'm not toxic. I'm reactive. There's a person somewhere calling me difficult, and they're leaving out the part where they pushed every boundary I set, ignored every signal I gave, and then acted shocked when I finally stopped being gentle about it.
@TrueAce305 Exactly this.
I’ve dated guys who do the whole “this is why I’m single” and the reasons seem like green flags but they’re actually SUPER weird guys. Veryyyy overly clingy, very possessive, quick to call YOU toxic because you have boundaries. Weird men.