If she's spending Thanksgiving in the city with her "chosen family" instead of her real family you probably shouldn't choose to raise a family with her. She can't start over with your children if she doesn't like their vibe
only thing they care about is imagining we are unjustifiably afraid of them. none of them have ever even had an experience of someone saying they’re afraid. you’re just trying to say we shouldn’t be afraid and to shut up