So many "subs" claim to like findom but actually have no idea what I means.
It's not sending money to receive nudes or a service. It's not access to every single kink in the book. Just because its part of BDSM doesn't not mean findoms specialise in femdom (yes its certainly can be part of it)
You can argue and say that new dommes only care about money and haven't got a clue. Yes that happens BUT the kink is literally having a domme have power over your finances. You have to actually get off to the fact that you are sending money to women or men and not expect anything in return. Both parties must be consenting adults. It's not a kink for horny broke men just wanting a quick want. There is subs that have literally sent millions to dommes and genuinely get off to the fact they're funding a lifestyle from them but they respect they will never meet or get anything from them.
Stop being so entitled 💸✨️
Hey girlypops, let’s stop calling subs “Daddy” and thanking them for sending you money. This is findom. You’re not a sugar baby pretending to like someone because he’s willing to hand you cash.
Findom is a power exchange. You’re in control of his finances.
The ‘thank you’ should be coming from the sub for being given the opportunity to surrender, submit, and serve.
Subs please check on your Dommes and Dommes please check on your sub. People in the community on both sides aren’t just wallets and kink dispensers
Look into Domme Drop and Sub Drop
Both are important
After care is important
If you don’t know what all 3 mean here you go
You want to be a good 🐷 but you’re not worthy. More. You think sending more will make you worthy of worship? Make you feel noticed? In my realm it’s your consistency. You want to be worthy of worship? You will fucking work for it. Until then, I’ll just keep taking your money.
It’s PAY(me) DAY! I know that deposit hit and you’re ever so eager to send. In fact, I know your little cock twitches every time you hover over that send button 💸. Be a good boy.
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“You only care about money”
Although money is a huge part of this dynamic, I care about building a connection with my subs. I care about what they do with their days and how they’re feeling. For me personally there’s way more to it than just money 🖤