life do teach us in a different ways. there’re some lessons, through joy, some are through pains. our ways are all different. our lessons are different as well. only life knows the reason why your lessons are yours.
my friend, please take care of your heart. eat well, sleep well, and see the sunlight. just rest if you’re tired. cry if you feel sad. just take your time to heal. and become stronger. got it?
whatever you do, ask for the grace to see yourself clearly. to notice your own faults, your own double standards, and the areas where you're still growing. it’s easy to point at others. don’t get so busy with their flaws that you forget you're human too.
the phrase “for you, i would” is such a gentle and sweet form of love language. even if i wouldn’t normally do something. i would gladly do it just to make you happy.
i walk in every room as myself. i don’t walk in any room as anyone else. i’m not cowering, i’m not speaking soft, my voice doesn’t change, it sounds exactly the same say. i’m walking as myself and proud.
i dislike being around people who lack emotional intelligence and self regulation. it just irks my soul. if you cannot see things outside of yourself and how you’re harming others, you’ll never evolve. intentions has nothing to do with impact.