Somewhere in your 20s or 30s you’ll get the opportunity to rebuild your life after a negative loop, heal from what broke you, live in your own space, reconnect with your discipline, and learn to love yourself again. It’s very important that you see that journey through.
They weren’t lying when they said you wake up one day & just don’t care anymore 😭😭 No warning, no dramatic shit, just a quiet, almost peaceful detachment.
Y'all ever dealt with a person so manipulative and draining that you literally just give up on trying to get your point across? Because all they do is PURPOSELY try not to understand and flip it back on you?
One of the hardest pills to swallow as an adult is clocking into a job where the staff sucks, the environment is toxic, and you can’t just walk away… because bills don’t stop. It’s a different kind of stress when you’re trapped between your peace and your paycheck.
Highly recommend letting people know you're capable of madness from time to time. Especially if you're a quiet, soft spoken person. Disrespect sometimes needs to be met with disrespect.. let mfers know you can go from 0-100 real quick.
Be selfish. Leave at 5pm. Take all your PTO. Ignore work calls on the weekend. Never take your work home. Jump to better jobs. Start side hustles. Always look out for yourself, FIRST.