Your entire life will change when you prioritize reciprocity. Stop supporting those who don't support you. Stop being there for those who are never there for you. Stop sacrificing your needs to maintain a one-sided relationship. Start pouring into cups that pour back into yours.
Saw a Tik tok that said, “matching energy will have you mirroring demons.” That’s why it’s so important to stay in relationship with God. Constantly seek faith over flesh, it’s so simple for energy transfer. Stay steadfast in maintaining pure energy, especially love. 🤍
a therapist on tiktok said…. “no one notices your sadness until it turns into anger, and then you're the problem. healing is realizing you became the angry person because no one saw your sadness first” felt that.
i no longer play about accountability. if you as a human being cannot see the way you move and acknowledge it — we have nothing to talk about. respectfully and with love. accountability is no longer an option within my relationships. it’s a MUST.
Stop being so considerate in situations where you aren't even considered. It’s okay to be nice. But if you’re sacrificing your own needs and wants to make someone else happy - you’re sliding into “too nice” territory. This will only lead to resentment and frustration.
yes, my best friend in elementary school, justine valasquez… we were as thick as thieves but she ended up moving before the school year was up & i’ve searched for her for YEARS but never found her 😪I still think of her still til this day. I hope she’s doing amazing. 🥺💕