Used to be, "cuckold" meant a husband who got cheated on and didn't know. There's even an old word for the ones who knew and didn't care: wittol.
In today's lifestyle, it means something else. A willing, knowing husband. With consent, not deception.
That's where you're mistaken. I don't desire your respect. I think the real question here is why you feel the need to opine on someone else's life that you have no interest in. Did you get cheated on and are you struggling to process it? Are you bullied and use your keyboard as an outlet? There are resources available to help you.
My ex-wife's favorite bull was a guy we worked with. At work, he and I were always professional. We both knew, but we never said a word about it.
Last year he sent me a friend request on Facebook. By the time I decided to accept it, it was gone.
I can't help thinking he was checking whether I had a new wife.
I spent a decade of my life dealing with the worst of humanity, and my masculinity has never been questioned or doubted. I'm polite and kind because I think it's the best way to go through life, but I don't hesitate to say what needs to be said to those who are disrespectful. I've never desired to disrespect anyone, even from the safe place behind my keyboard. Do you struggle with your masculinity?
Shakespeare couldn't stop writing about cuckolds. His plays are full of horn jokes, from Much Ado About Nothing to Othello, and his audiences laughed every time. Over 400 years later, some of us don't mind the horns at all.🤘
@getpunished Nah, you may bring out a different side of her, and that can be fun. It may be refreshing and the break she needs from her normal everyday life, but with a real husband and a real wife, this would never happen.
@joseant68070323 It seems you were bored when you suggested the lifestyle, and now you're bored with the lifestyle. That doesn't seem fair to her. Look within yourself and figure out what's going on with you.
I've often wondered why the interracial part excites me more than anything else. Maybe it's because I had a Black father figure as a kid and was the only white kid in my school. Whatever the reason, in videos or stories, it's always the theme that gets me.
I never picked the guy. What we think a woman is attracted to can be way off from reality. Let her get comfortable first, then explore your comfort too.
In Italy, the horns never went away. Calling a man "cornuto" (horned) is still one of the worst insults there, and the hand sign with the index and pinky raised can mean "your wife is cheating on you."
Some of us would just take it as a compliment.
I've struggled to reconcile my desires with my Christianity. I'm a flawed believer with mostly traditional values, and this part of me doesn't fit neatly into either world. I haven't figured it all out, but I've stopped pretending it isn't there.
I'd listen to him. If one of you wants a pause, pushing through it can hurt the marriage more than taking a break will. Talk about why he wants it, give it some time, and don't treat it like a rejection. He may need some reassurance. You're getting attention from the man who wants to share his life with you and the bull(s), so your confidence and self-esteem are probably pretty high. Talk to him, see what he's feeling, and reassure him.
@HotWife23558669 For me it wasn't one position. I just wanted to share the experience, whether it's when she comes home and tells me about it while I hold and caress her, or being close enough to hold her hand and stroke her hair while she was experiencing pleasure.