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take me serious at your own peril.

[Take the Disability Inclusion Quiz in my bio @misty_abisola]

PLEASE DONATE AND RETWEET 😢 🤲🏽

[Onuoha Lorenzo @unkle_renzoo]

These are Nigerians!
And Nigeria shouldn’t ignore them.

This should not become a culture.

[Big_Cee🫶 @Ceh_Lyn]

Day 33💔
I won’t stop or get tired of posting this!
Tinubu is a colossal failure

[kelly @feedmyfamily1]

📢Eric is still fighting kidney failure every single day. Losing his account meant losing vital support during a difficult time. A share, comment, or repost can make a real difference💔

[💖 @goodlifesom]

Can you accept my invitation so that I can get a free gift?
https://t.co/pNkqTgcQgC

[Omo Kogi (Yagba) 🌍 @harrysone9]

Nigerians are always quick to move on, but if this pops up on your timeline, repost it; it costs you zero naira.

It’s been three weeks now.

[Hauwa 🌟🌬 @Hauwa_L]

Loke Loke Lola Kunfayakun.

[Ọládélé 🇳🇬👑 @Oladele]

It cost $0.00 to retweet this

[Onuoha Lorenzo @unkle_renzoo]

Just look at.
This could be you.
Could be your mother!
Could be your sister.
Could be your wife.

But you won’t post it.

[💖 @goodlifesom]

@twhy111 @JustMickey6 @UnkleAyo You’re just in every comment section explaining what nobody sent you. You can continue being them from where they stopped if you’re so bothered

[Shehu Gazali Sadiq @Rejoice_inlife]

Did you hear any Islamic cleric condemn the beheading of a teacher by Islamic terrorists in Oyo state?
They are all quiet because it's Islamic jihad. It's endorsed by the Quran and the Hadith.

[💖 @goodlifesom]

@MrMekzy_ My my immediate elder sister that I can do this for. Only her. The rest won’t pay back

[💖 @goodlifesom]

@Baby_zee64 @official_Gegeh Omo you guys are real unrepentant dogs!!!

[💖 @goodlifesom]

@st_waw @stephanieokoye_ Una don dey shift goal post ooo🤣🤣🤣

[Ọládélé 🇳🇬👑 @Oladele]

It cost $0.00 to retweet

[JUST KINGS @JustKingss]

If this appears on your timeline just repost it.

#EndPoliceBrutality ✊🏾

[Chicken Catcher🐔 @Only1Etubo]

I have tweeted this a few times, and I will tweet it again.

Firstly, we cannot say they didn’t build or buy a house for their fathers just because it wasn’t posted online. Secondly, if they didn’t, there must be a story behind it. Lastly, and most importantly, we men underestimate the importance of bonding, showing up, and emotionally supporting our kids. We act like these things aren’t as important as providing. Many men don’t even try at all. no bond, no emotional support, and just providing.

Do you know why many men are quick to disown their kids? It’s because there is no bond. We see it online all the time: a video of kids making mistakes, and men commenting, “If any of my kids try this, I will disown them.” That easy? The first thing that comes to your mind is to disown them? I changed so many diapers, soothed their sickness, and endured every tantrum, and you just want me to disown my kids? Many men see kids as people they only need to provide for.

If all you do is provide, while the mother does the showing up, emotional support, and bonding, then when the kids grow up and it’s time to give back, they will do the same. Not because they are bad kids, but because that’s what they learned. They will celebrate their mother more. They will talk to her more. Meanwhile, you as the father who only provided, will only receive financial gestures and gifts. You will be taken care of. They will like post their mom and rarely post you. Ask people who openly celebrate their dads if all he did was provide.

But if you never celebrated them when they were young, why should they celebrate you? You can’t expect them to miraculously create a bond you never built. If you’re lucky, your kids may unlearn that pattern and try to build a relationship with you, but it will be difficult, because they were raised with, “As a father, it’s my way or the highway.”

I work 12 to 16 hours sometimes, and my daughter has a game right after that. I get tired, really tired, but I still show up. And many times, when I get there, the smile that lights up her face when she spots me in the crowd is priceless. I love seeing that.

Do you think I always have the strength to go to parks, birthday parties, pools, and watch her play sports? Sometimes I want to rest, but I still try. And whenever I can’t make it, I communicate that with her. I don’t just fail to show up. I explain and give her reasons. So, my brothers, providing for your family and being emotionally present aren’t mutually exclusive. Try. Otherwise, when you are down, your kids won’t be beside you on your deathbed, but they will make sure you d*e comfortably.

[💖 @goodlifesom]

@ACrowd34 @oku_yungx Did he lie?

[💖 @goodlifesom]

@UnkleAyo This what my husband kept going on about until i finally accepted to take in😅😅😅
He doesn’t wanna be 50 and doing primary school runs🤣🤣
I say oga no rush me. No be mmm e send you not yo marry early

[💖 @goodlifesom]

@Engr_Ashile Calabar to Obudu in cross river will have you spending 8 hours on the road