i love creepy boys so much
creepy boys who stare for a little too long, who touch you like they're trying to see what they can get away with, who always remember little things about you that you don't even remember telling them... stalker boys, weird boys, obsessive boys ughhh
yes guys make dismissive avoidants the villain and ignore that obsessive attachment people are equally bad too and not to justify their actions constantly# phenotypes
lwk funny watching urself feel anxious and depressive the moment after you stop hanging out with somebody or run out of distractions, truly makes u realize how insufferable ur life is
i am a horrible friend, and i am aware of this; i ignore messages, i barely reach out, i do not open up about my feelings or experiences, i do not know how to comfort, react to their pain or empathise with them; i am avoidant and push them away.. just to whine about it later