@DanaLArcuri Our abuser was a corrupt medical provider. I spoke up, and they made a fraudulent report to the authorities against me. My dying husband and I were threatened and terrorized. My husband has since died, and I’m still scared to speak up again.
There is so much at stake in today’s election, especially for our seniors. We must elect Democrats up and down the ballot to ensure a stronger and fairer future for all.
As a Domestic/Family Violence victim I suffered unbearable abuse, damages, distress, & 2nd victimization inflicted by the New Jersey Gov. Officials + Judges while pleading for help! I see trauma here, & what exactly happened to Jessica's face? 😓
MeToo! Worse, I named my sister Jeanne our mother's executrix, her abusive/violent/criminal husband "terrorized" our family! Jeanne's mental-physical health declined & Jeanne died, my family was abused/victimized/robbed! NJ Officials+Courts helped HIM; They attacked ME!🥵
I am a victim of terroristic threats, fraud, extortion, exploitation, obstruction by corrupt Gov officials! No One Cares that I/others suffer the consequences, damages, loss, distress, trauma, grief, hardship these criminals inflict or the people they endanger! NO FORGIVENESS!😡
You shouldn’t tell a survivor to forgive. You shouldn’t tell a survivor not to forgive. You shouldn’t tell a survivor what to do. Forgiveness is personal, private, not ‘required’, and up to the survivor. They know what is best for them🤎 #respectsurvivors
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I prefer to vote in person, but I am not against drive-up voter drop-off boxes, mail-in ballots, or ballot pick-up services for homebound, senior care centers, hospitals, & jails. THE PEOPLE'S VOTING RIGHTS only terrifies people who want to deprive PEOPLE RIGHTS.🥵
My mom died & left my sister & me 2properties, my sister became incapacitated from cancer, her husband texted, "Stop crying forget your inheritance get a waitress job to loss pounds". Jeanne died, NJ court & him stole every dime from Me, 😓 Misogynist Narcissists victimize women!
If you are uncomfortable standing up to misogyny from other men then you understand how the threat of retaliation, social or physical, perpetuates oppression. Now, decide whether you’re to do anything about it, and if you won’t, don’t tell me you’re not part of the problem.
NJ COURTROOM! As a traumatized/frightened Pro Se family violence victim trying to protect my family+me. Our abuser & male court system emotionally, psychologically & financially gang-raped me, stole my property, inflicted PTSD & poverty! Narcopath's Legal Abuse is criminal 🥵
Suicide Prevention=Solution/Remedy/Support/Wins: NOT talk therapy, anti-psych/depressants/Meds, Patronizing "get over it", think positive, forgive abusers/criminals/thieves, "YOU" make yourself sick, stop letting it affect you, you're not alone? You are alone when you die!☠️😡💔
People aren’t faking their feelings of depression anxiety and mental illnesses conditions.
It’s not attention seeking.
These struggles are very real, that’s why someone dies from suicide every 40 seconds.
Suicide isn’t fake so stop saying the conditions that lead to suicide are.
People suffer narcissist "ABUSE-VIOLENCE", Coercive Control, Terroristic Threats, Legal Abuse, Financial Crimes, etc. & Fight-Flight-Frozen physiological changes-damages to the brain-overwhelming distress & Harsh-Cruel-Demeaning Secondary Victimization, can't just let it go!😩
ABUSE & TRAUMA
Literally change how our brain’s function and we have people saying stuff like.
Let go of your past, just forget about it.
The problem is we can’t forget.
If only we could forget.
Sometimes your responses can be super harmful and make that person even more upset.
Not a survivor! I suffer the consequences, damages, loss & trauma of being a victim of New Jersey's gov. official's illegal activities & abuse. So tired of N.J.'s Gov's dishonest mission statements, phony victims services & corrupt justice entities, I need access to justice!
Survivors: what do you want access to that currently isn’t available to you or doesn’t exist in your area? What do you wish existed as a service that you cannot currently access?
Yep! Abuse is violennce with a cause to Overpower, Violate, Dominant, Coercivly Control, Manipulate, Intimidate, Condition, Terrorize, Inflict Pain, Harm, Diminish & Invalidate another person; so is victim shaming-blaming & secondary victimization. STOP PERPETRATORS/ SAVE VICTIMS
Something haunted me while working on our new investigation into hidden homicides: @JMoncktonSmith told us abuse victims are treated as 'low status' to officers who can't understand why a woman stays with an abusive man.
We saw this repeatedly in the stories we uncovered
@robertjwolfmd My mom was dying, I made an online Will to protect my disabled brother's home +2 rentals. I named my Big sister, mom's executrix. Her CRIMINAL-NARC husband terrorized my family; Jeanne died of cancer, he harmed & robbed our family! I was/am powerless to protect MY family😭
It’s not our job to protect abusers reputations, the way their children or family see them. If they don’t want their behaviors named in public they shouldn’t have done them.
Can you name all 59 women who came forward against Cosby? Can you name half of them? Can you name 5? Would you recognize them out of context? Do you want an autograph?
Cool so we agree that women don’t make rape accusations to become famous.