and it's clearly not something a man or woman should be proud of. It's a societal failure that prioritizes individual needs over community building, with women's bodies being reduced to mere objects in ways that benefit men, reinforcing capitalist patriarchy.
the thing is, nobody should be so emotionally unavailable that they "casually" use someone else's body to fill their own emptiness, whether it's out of lust or anything else, regardless of gender.
under capitalism, sex gets reduced to personal desire instead of being seen as an emotional or relational need. something as intimate and profound as sex gets commodified into mere lust, while the emotional part is downplayed and even treated as shameful.