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[Adegbola John @AdegbolaJohn3]

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[Adegbola John @AdegbolaJohn3]

Is that talk? So as you are paying Ogo' school fees ( she's referring to Toluwani's blood child) does that mean you can't set up your wife's business? As you are eating and drinking at home, you can't establish your wife's business, but its my child's school bills abroad that is making you not to be able to fund a business for your wife? Is that talk?

I know you have actually been paying my son's bills from the onset, but this your talk, complaining, and voicing out has spoilt whatever kudos you deserve! Yes!

Even if you don't have the money we are requesting you to pay now, at least don't say insulting words to us! Words like "If Taiwo puts his hope on me he will be disappointed " How can you say such!!! It is insulting!! Is it your happiness that he meets with disappointment? Is that your desire?

Is it your happiness that he gets deported back home? Common! If you don't want to help keep shut! But no worries, "You gourd will describe where the roap fits it's neck" (Akeregbe e ma juwe ibi ti wa ti fokun si lorun) Do you understand?

Of course I have zero my mind from you, since you have decided not to care about how am fareing or living, you abandoned me, of course people without children live, so you abandoning me is nothing. Of course you sent me money recently, I haven't even touched it, when you asked after my business I told you health is wealth, money is not everything.

I may not have money but I am favored of the Lord, whenever I ask the product distributors for goods on credit, they give it to me! Yet people say oww their child is a celebrity, but anyways I'm doing fine, I may not be eating what I like, I'm good and fine. The sad thing is all those who ought to help us, keep saying " oww you have a gospel celebrity, you are rich guys " yet opposite is the case!

See if you refuse to help us, we will survive! It's because your are alive that's why we call you right? It's because you are that's why, there are numerous people, men dey..other family members dey, plenty seff, there's Segun, I only need to call him once, he responds, he bought me fridge! Brought it from Apapa.

Lots of people supported when Taye was to travel abroad, it wasn't only your money. It's because you are alive that we are calling you. (O n be lase pe e)

Stop saying words that are insulting to us, words that will make one think of ĥąnging oneself.

Remember, whoever thinks he owns today should remember, another person owns tomorrow, do you understand? We know today no one knows tomorrow. There is time and season, for some thier time is morning, some afternoon, some evening. Time and season differs for individuals. You don't need to insult us, don't! No one is destined not to do good, everyone will be successful, you should know that.

And if you like tell anyone I said this! I don't care, tell anyone you wish to! Whoever you want to tell I said this, tell them.

That's all I have to say.

The above is the VN Toluwani's Aunt who took care of him after the demise of his maternal grandmother, on the issue of Toluwani complaining about the incessant demands of Taye, the son of her aunt he sponsored abroad and single handedly payed his tuition and living fees.

[Adegbola John @AdegbolaJohn3]

ToluwaniSings Aunty speaks:Tells Toluwani that "Torí pé Ò n be , la Fi n pè o" (it's only because you're here that we're requesting from you)

"So what's the big deal? Even if it's 50 million Naira you have spent on Taye, is that too much? At least its not medical bills or police case, so such money should not be considered a waste "

☎️ VN: From Toluwani's Aunt to Toluwanisings.

Good evening, how are you? I heard all you said oo, and I'm wondering, were you the one that thought of this or someone or group of people are underneath this? Who is giving you such confidence?

Have you forgotten your origin and the sacrifice we made for you? So why then send all those messages? Whatever you say or do today will definitely be in record for ever.

Yes you have done a lot for us in time past, but your recent utterances are watering down those help you did for us. See, whoever is taught wickedness and he does it, already have wickedness in him! You don't need to send those messages to us..

Is it your happiness that Taye should face misfortune? So it's because of Taye that you refrain from picking our calls?

Don't worry we will stop calling you, and God will shock you, don't ever think all the help you have been rendering for us is you. No it is God, don't think too much about it. It's not you it is God, and now that you are refusing to continue to render the help, don't talk anyhow to us!

Imagine the kind of rubbish talk you are saying: " That Taye should go and find a Job to do" " That he should come and live with you in Ibadan" Is that talk? Just imagine such disgrace! That he should come back and start following you around? Does that make sense to you?

I have seen many people in your present position who has built houses for their mother, and bought cars, I have seen it on the internet.

So what's the big deal? Even if it's 50 million Naira you have spent on Taye, is that too much? At least its not medical bills or police case, so such money should not be considered a waste.

Please don't say insulting words because you no longer want to render help to us. Infact the last time I called you I had zero my heart, because you no longer care about my welfare or that of my husband. So I had decided not to ever call and that last one was because I wanted to by that equipment and the seller said I should call you, I was already sorting for the fund myself, she was the one who told me to ask you.

So why exactly should you talk that much, all because we said you should help your younger brother (his cousin, the son of the woman) I know it's not your doings, someone is embolding you giving you courage and boldness to be saying those things to us!

Don't worry, stop helping him, how he got there ( schooling abroad sponsored by Toluwani oo) is nobody's understanding! It's nobody's understanding, it was God's doing, not you! Forget it, it's beyond your own understanding! He is a special boy, God specially made the way he got to the abroad and God will perfect his needs there, since you are now declining to help again.

So watch the kind of talk you will say to us! Words are eggs when they break, the spill can no longer be gathered, so watch your mouth!

And no one had ever claimed a tree beyond the leaves, no one! Do you understand? My son is not in the Police station or needs hospital bills, remember the time I came to bail you from the police station at Egbeda back in the day, I didn't complain or send talks like you are doing now!

See I have told my other children to stop begging you, because of Taye, imagine! Just imagine! What if it were now 2 to 3 people that I say you should sponsor, what's now going to happen! I heard you say it's because of your financial obligations to Taye that has made you not to be able to give your wife money to start business? Is that talk?

[Adegbola John @AdegbolaJohn3]

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Toluwanisings Uncle, Babátúndé Olaloye (Another painful part of the story)
1. Toluwanisings while lamenting about the pressure said he just recently sent 1,150,000 to this Uncle to buy his machine, that they should be patient with him, he will attend to the rest or do they want him dead?
2. ⁠And the worst of it all, 24 hours after his death, his uncle reportedly arm-twisted his colleagues, telling them that Toluwanisings was supposed to send 6,000 pounds to his younger brother in the UK before he died.
Some music ministers had to contribute some money, and the receipt of ₦6 million sent to the cousin in the UK is on Yinka TNT’s page. (We do not know as of now, if they sent the full 6,000 pounds or not, the reciept of 6 million naira is what we have seen so far).
This money was sent just one week and two days after Toluwanisings’ death, right there in the morgue!

What a sad story! A badly written Nollywood story playing right before our very eyes.

In a voice note released by TNT, Toluwanisings could be heard speaking with a trembling voice. He said he had not been able to give his wife money to start something of her own because of these financial burdens.

A man abandons his own dreams because some leech has an expectation.

He delays setting up his wife because his extended family has another list of needs.

His money is treated as a family entitlement, not as the product of his own labour, sacrifice, decisions and sometimes, years of deliberate self-denial.

And guess what? He still hasn’t done enough. Isn’t it? So tán?

Guess what? The wife whose needs he postponed because of them is being labelled by these same people as the bad wife.

Listen to me attentively: “I don’t have what you are asking for” is a complete answer.

Even “I cannot afford to do that right now” is enough.

And please, don’t wait until your body begins to shut down before you realise that you have been carrying too much.

The human body is not designed to withstand endless emotional pressure.

You cannot keep living with the anxiety of disappointing everybody.

You cannot keep sacrificing your peace, health, marriage and personal goals to maintain the comfort of people who may never acknowledge your sacrifices.

Please, don’t let the people you are trying so hard to keep comfortable become the reason you never get to enjoy the life you worked so hard to build.

#ToluwaniSings #toluwanisingsupdates #YinkaTNT #ToluwaniSingsyinkatnt

[Adegbola John @AdegbolaJohn3]

Some families will drain you emotionally, financially and psychologically, and will not stop until they see you gone and buried!
So sad and deeply painful to the core.

Toluwanisings, a man who clocked 34 just four months ago.

These were some of the burdens he was carrying before he slumped and d#ed.

These are not speculations but actual words spoken by family members and posted online. You can verify them yourself.

His younger brother:

1. “I won’t lie, he gives me money.”
2. “There was a time Grandma wanted him to buy Eran Ileya (a ram for Ileya), but he refused because he had become a Christian.”

So, there was a time when buying the Ileya ram became Toluwanisings’ responsibility.

His father:

1. Toluwanisings sent him monthly upkeep and had increased it to ₦80,000 at the time of his death.
2. Toluwanisings had already opened a shop for him before he passed.
3. Toluwanisings had promised to send him ₦5 million to support his business and stock the shop with goods before he passed.
4. ⁠The father also mentioned that Toluwanisings was also asked and promised to complete the building of his father’s house, where his mother was also buried.
This he promised to do immediately after settling his father with the 5 million naira he promised him for the business start up.

From Toluwani’s voice note on Yinka TNT page, we realized how heavy the burden was, Jesus took his heavy burden but family laid on him another “Ajaga”.
There is Boda Kayode, there is Boda Tunde, there is his younger brother, his father, his grandmother , his siblings, his maternal aunt, his maternal cousin -Taye is there also.

Let’s continue ,
His grandmother:

1. “Toluwanisings only sent me ₦10,000 three times.”
2. “When I needed a phone, I called his elder brother to help me call him to buy me one.”

His cousin, Taiwo Olawoyin (one of the most painful parts of the story):

1. Toluwanisings, a 34-year-old man with a wife and two children, was changing naira to pounds, as he was single-handedly sponsoring his aunt’s child in a school in the UK.
2. Even after the young man graduated, Toluwanisings lamented that his cousin still called to ask him to send £6,000 (approximately ₦12 million), claiming that he still owed the school.

Another uncle (Whose voice note is on Yinka TNT’s page)

1. Toluwanisings was expected to send him money to settle a debt he owed someone.
2. He also mentioned that he was hoping he could use the money, add to it and buy a tricycle.
3. He also questioned Toluwanisings about why he hadn’t bought a television for their aunt, who hadn’t watched TV since the beginning of the year.
4. The uncle also informed him that even his own television was spoilt, but he didn’t want to disturb him about that. However, he expected him to at least sort out the aunt’s own.
5. He said that although Toluwanisings had sponsored his aunt’s son through school in the UK and the young man had graduated, he still expected Toluwanisings to set up a business for the aunt, even if it meant ₦200,000 or ₦500,000, because the son he had sponsored abroad had not started making money.
6. He accused Toluwanisings of abandoning his mother’s side of the family while, in the same breath, acknowledging that he had tried with sponsoring the cousin’s education in the UK.
7. In his uncle’s words, while making demands and putting pressure on Toluwanisings, he said, “If one was expecting ₦1,000 from somewhere and received only ₦500, one might not be able to offer gratitude as one ought to because what was given is below expectation.”

Which means, in his uncle’s estimation, giving ₦500 when ₦1,000 was expected was still a failure. In other words, it wasn’t about what Toluwanisings could afford or had the capacity to give. It was about meeting their expectations, regardless of the cost to him.

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Gospel singer BBO and the late Toluwanisings were very close friends, brothers in the gospel music ministry, and colleagues. They were not reported to be blood brothers.

They shared a strong friendship. They reportedly supported each other as they grew up in the Nigerian gospel music industry.

They were very close. BBO reportedly called Toluwanisings “Ogo” whenever they met.
BBO was deeply affected by his death. Reports said he and other associates were seen crying and praying when Toluwanisings was rushed to hospital.

BBO later paid tribute. On October 29, 2026, he shared a picture with Toluwanisings and wrote, “We may not understand, but we judge GOD faithful.”

So, their relationship was one of deep friendship and brotherhood in Christ, not a confirmed family relationship.

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He started by saluting his father on the poster I did not hear what he said properly. Later, when he matched forward.. I thought he wanted to go in and meet his mum. But I saw another thing entirely. I wept bitterly as if I knew them...

From his statement, his father died 20years ago. His widowed mother struggled to raise four children alone. He is the last born appreciating their mother who passed away 2months before he finished his NYSC. I felt his pain so much...

To the youths-
Pray that affliction will not rise the second! The Untimely death that happened to your parents will never happen to you in Jesus name, amen.

To the parents-
Isaiah 65:21-24 and Isaiah 8:18....
Pray with this Bible passages always. Decree and declare it upon your household always...
I WILL NOT LABOUR IN VAIN IN JESUS NAME, AMEN🔥....

[Adegbola John @AdegbolaJohn3]

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Omo, it's like Isreal was right to stick with Davido and forget this him ex - wife Sheila . Baba don build him own house and get new car and travel the world with Davido - enjoying life . From USA to London to Europe to Asia . If he had left , maybe by now , he wouldn't have been able to pay his house rent in Benin City and who knows whether she for still dey with am as a broke man.

Life na sense oo...

[Adegbola John @AdegbolaJohn3]

Ladies and Gentlemen, you have to learn .

He buried his sister today and said what broke everyone ... 😭

"Bad husband will never be your portion again in your next life. We advised you, but you refused to listen. In your next world, please take advice."

She is gone now. No more pain.

Ladies, please hear this: If your family is begging you to leave him, LISTEN. Don't let love and pride keep you where there is no love , you may pay a costly price.

Rest well, sister. 🕊️💔

[Adegbola John @AdegbolaJohn3]

Emir Ajagungbade’s Death: Alowonle Releases New Video Weeks After Police Declared Him Wanted

The factional chairman of the National Union of Road Transport Workers in Osun State state, Nurudeen Alowonle, has released a new video on social media weeks after being declared wanted by the Police over the killing of Olalekan Oyeyemi, popularly known as Emir Ajagungbade.

Alowonle posted the video on Monday on his verified TikTok account with the username “@wakeelnurudeen98”

Osun TV recalls that the Police had on October 20, 2026 declared Alowonle wanted in connection with Emir’s killing on September 13 at a motor park in Ile-Ife.

The Osun State Commissioner of Police, Ibrahim Zungura, disclosed this while parading suspects arrested for various crimes at the command headquarters in Osogbo, the state capital.

He said six suspects, including Alowonle’s personal assistant and an operative of the Amotekun Corps, had been arrested in connection with Emir’s killing on September 13 at a motor park in Ile-Ife.

The commissioner added that the police were intensifying efforts to arrest Alowonle and another NURTW chief, Ojo Adeyemi, also known as Sibi, over the incident.

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Many Injured As Another Building Collapses In Osun

Days after a two-storey shopping complex under construction collapsed in Owode-Ede, Osun State, another building collapsed in Ile- Ife.

The incident occurred late on Monday at Araloyin line 1 in Ile-Ife. It was gathered that although no life was lost but many people were reportedly injured.