"I support my man in every little way, I can support."
"No matter how little, but something for your man."
"How can you close your eyes and watch your man pay all the bills? Even if it is Maggi for soup, do something, no matter how little"
Na that "little" I no want. I dey forbid am. Why is every financial input you want to make in your relationship and marriage "little?" I want my partner's support in every way possible. You dey forbid to do big thing? Where is the partnership?
You're an adult. I expect you to behave like an adult and that includes, sorting bills.
Life gives everyone something :beauty, brains, money, talent,connections.
Whatever is in your hands is a tool,
Use it.The world isnโt neutral, and neither should you be.
People will criticize you for leaning into your strengths, but most of them would have no hesitation doing the same if life flipped the script and handed them your position.
If you donโt use your edge, someone else will use theirs against you.
You know what comes with chasing purpose?
It'll never look down on you nor reject you like that girl you chased did.
Chase your dreams more!!!
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Men:
Stop sending money to women to โappreciateโ their beauty.
Stop flooding her DMs and giving her unnecessary missed calls.
Stop reaching out to her friends to help you beg on your behalf whenever she breaks up with you.
Stop buying her gifts to get her attention.
Stop overspending to impress her.
Stop begging her for attention.
Stop swallowing disrespect because youโre scared to lose her.
Stop begging if she threatens you with a breakup.
Stop reducing yourself.
Stop being a simp!!!
Shalom!
Men:
Stop sending money to women to โappreciateโ their beauty.
Stop flooding her DMs and giving her unnecessary missed calls.
Stop reaching out to her friends to help you beg on your behalf whenever she breaks up with you.
Stop buying her gifts to get her attention.
Stop overspending to impress her.
Stop begging her for attention.
Stop swallowing disrespect because youโre scared to lose her.
Stop begging if she threatens you with a breakup.
Stop reducing yourself.
Stop being a simp!!!
Shalom!
My son had been dating a wonderful woman for about 8 months.
Recently, they had one of those conversations couples eventually have:
"How many people have you been with?"
The young lady answered honestly.
She said 11.
The moment those words left her mouth, my son completely lost his mind.
He started calling her every insulting name you can imagine.
She sat there trying to explain herself while he kept attacking her character until tears started rolling down her face.
That's when I stepped in.
And what I said next changed the entire room.
I looked at my son and said:
"Funny how you're judging her for 11 when you've been with over 80 women yourself."
The room went silent.
But that wasn't even the part that shocked her...
The young woman's eyes widened.
My son immediately jumped up and shouted,
"MOM!"
But I wasn't finished.
I looked him straight in the eye and added:
"And let's not forget that one time in your early twenties when you were experimenting and ended up with a man too."
The girl's mouth literally dropped open.
My son looked like he wanted the ground to swallow him.
Then he started crying.
"Mom, you promised you'd never tell anybody. I trusted you. It was one mistake."
I told him:
"You don't get to shame someone for having a past when your own past isn't spotless."
"If you can humiliate people, be prepared for your own secrets to see daylight."
The young lady wiped her tears, looked at me and quietly said,
"Thank you."
Then she walked out the door.
She never looked back.
And honestly?
I hope that was the day my son learned that respect isn't something you demand from others while refusing to give it yourself.
@rukky_nate I have a vid about women be scared when there man is happy, when they are not the reason behind the happiness. So they try to foil that happiness by all means.