@AdakuYoung90@RejoiceAli66396 Stepfather have a right when they have been there’s since birth or since the kid was at young age (kid) but when they appear in a teens life they really don’t which is why I said “rules should be told front the beginning” and not act the way the guy did
@AdakuYoung90@RejoiceAli66396 Head of the house is our mother, they painfully tore their vaginas pushing us into this world, gave us unconditional love and support, like you said not every biological fathers act the part but who is the one that gets stuck raising us when that happens
@RejoiceAli66396 You don’t demand nor sound like your throwing authority around, you ask politely to respect your rules, example “ it’s fine that your talking to your father but while we are at the table no phones please any conversation can wait after eating” not acting the way the guy dude did
@RejoiceAli66396 Yall need to understand if you weren’t there before she was born or right after you have no right to act like a father, if you show up while they are teens or at an age they understand a few things, they will see you as the problem as to why there parents aren’t together
I don’t care, the moment the truth came out the family I thought I had is nothing but a chapter in my book that is time to close, yeah kid didn’t have nothing to with it but I will not continue to raise a child that I thought was mine but was lied too for so many years, how can I continue to call a child born from cheaters my son. I’m pretty sure there were other methods to use to talk to the lady about the situation instead of going to her house and questioning her their with her risk of exposing secrets and causing more harm then anything