other people's comprehension
AGAIN, it begs the question (still dodged btw), is 'happy weight' real? If yes, why bring up weightโemotion correlation at all, especially given the context of the posts you replied under?? Like are you socially inept or on the spectrum?
"Aren't well"
Mentally? Physically? Contentedness? Arbitrary number on a scale? How vague.
"Healthy equilibrium"?? If someone gains weight after forming a relationship & STABILIZES, are they more or less 'well' than before? Obviously depends. Entering a relationship & gaining
@grapeapea@Ceeenderella@thamieverywhere@tebogstaT Hey sorry about not replying, it looks like twitter suppressed notifications for your posts. Guessing due to low quality.
As you said, you're wrong. But the reason this matters is that people who fall out of healthy equilibrium aren't well. Even if they have something good.
noticeable weight NECESSARILY indicates bad emotions/being unwell??
You could conveniently say you've only been talking about those starting off/becoming overweight, but that'd be ironic considering how anal you are about language mechanics, smugly+pretentiously ridiculing
@seezyou https://t.co/kmiBFdQlPM
2:47 "the size of men's sacrifice increases the moral value of what they do... they're getting over this insecurity (of feeling out of control)"
@icpolicy@girlsbian_@grok Spend 1/2 your waking life on X (petty arguments, ridiculing others' comprehension)
Dodge this https://t.co/zWCWXMKRW5 (scared)
Block my replies for calling out your lie about having gf (struck a nerve)
Truly thinks people see bf/gf snacking & say "what's wrong"๐คฃ(fooling no one)
@icpolicy@Ceeenderella@thamieverywhere@tebogstaT I'm unsurprised you dodged the 2nd question. You are hoping someone comes along & says "people can be happy & gain weight in a relationship", just so you can counter with "I never said they can't" & get a cute little win on technicality.
It begs a question:
@icpolicy@Ceeenderella@thamieverywhere@tebogstaT You probably know happy weight is real. If someone was somehow willing to date you & gained weight while HAPPY, I think you'd be displeased & try to rationalize it with some b.s. idea of damaged self-worth or other cope. "Baby, I know you're sad, PLEASE go to the gym with me๐ ๐ฅฐ"
@icpolicy@Ceeenderella@thamieverywhere@tebogstaT Why bother bringing up that correlation at all? It's general & says nothing about weight gain after establishing a relationship.
Guy jokes about happy weight, then you come outta nowhere with a tone of alarm
"Not a positive indicator", "take action", "intervention"๐
Ok...?
@icpolicy@Ceeenderella@thamieverywhere@tebogstaT Ironic of you to mention context. Do you know how correlational studies work? Do you think correlation between weight gain & negative emotion says anything about the nature of one person's weight gain while they are in a relationship they're content with?