@rhodeschord My take away has been that I was worried that I they were clocking me and my date and trying to be weird about it, but I can honestly say after everyone 's interaction I'm confident that they were just trying to be kind and supportive
Muting and going to bed for the record the subtext was that I wanted to ask the 3 people that regularly interact with my posts their thoughts and feeling really happy about the outpouring of love and kindness from everyone thank you!!!