@Real__Ada_Wong People are cowards; they don't want to change anything because they're afraid of losing the status quo they're used to. If there's a terrifying person, they'll die, and others will die too, andsomeone else will appear. If there's a wise person, they'll die, and someone elsewill
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Listen to me; when someone ๐๐ฟ๐๐น๐ loves you, respects you, and values you, they will never try to awaken your insecurities, make you feel bad or inferior, or compare you to others to provoke unnecessary competition to feed their ego โโ No. They will love you for who you truly are, with your qualities and your flaws; they will make you one of their ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ฒ๐, reassure you that no one compares to you, and that youโre unique in their eyes. No options, no comparisons, no other partners, only ๐๐ผ๐.
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Otherwise, these childish behaviors will lead to unnecessary conflicts, one-sided competitions, fear or anxiety, and will make you feel that no matter what you do or how much effort you put in, itโs ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ enough. You give 100% while they only give 30%. In the end, this relationship is not about both of you, but only about themselves, because they crave love and attention but have nothing to offer in return except chaos, uncertainty, and insecurity.
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Remember that no matter how strong your feelings are, how many memories you share, or how many years youโve spent together, if there is no respect, if this person makes you feel insecure, sick, uncomfortable, or if you feel like you constantly have to compete or try ๐ต๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฑ to please them, itโs time to leave and respect yourself. Because this is not about love, but about emotional manipulation. And in some cases, a power game. You deserve better than this โโ You deserve someone who recognizes your ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐๐ต.
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#AdaWong
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Someone once said that whatever battle we have raging inside us, we ๐ฎ๐น๐๐ฎ๐๐ have a choice โโ Indeed.
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You can either continue down your path of self destruction until thereโs ๐ป๐ผ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ด left of you; until youโre completely broken, empty and lost... Or, you can finally find the courage to take responsibility for your life and your choices, and start the painful process of rebuilding from the ground up.
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Nobody can make this choice for you โโ This is something you have to decide for yourself. You have to decide whether you want to save your own life, or whether youโre going to let yourself be completely ๐ฐ๐ผ๐ป๐๐๐บ๐ฒ๐ฑ by guilt, regret, and the consequences of your own cowardice.
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